PROSTATE MASSAGES: Hitting The Male G-Spot
When it comes to hitting the “right spot”, focus is always drawn to the female anatomy. The topic constantly revolves around the woman’s clitoris or G-spot. But when are men going to get the same attention? The answer is simple and complicated at the same time: because the male G-spot is located in an area that is generally considered to be taboo by a majority of straight and even some gay men. The sexual sweet spot of a man is his prostate gland.
For those who aren’t quite familiar with the male reproductive system, the prostate is a walnut-sized gland that is located between the bladder and the penis, just in front of the rectum. It is responsible for secreting fluid that both nourishes and protects sperm (which explains why sperm is released in liquid form). While it is impossible to access the prostate directly without performing surgery, it is possible to stimulate the prostate by reaching into the anus and curling the finger into a form that is also associated with reaching the female G-spot.
While this method may appear immensely invasive for many, the benefits very much outweigh the stigma. Prostate massages have been known to release enormous amounts of physical and emotional stress. They have also been credited with numerous health benefits including the improvement of prostate health. In addition, when paired with the physical stimulation of the penis, prostate massages create intense physical pleasure, resulting in incomparably powerful orgasms. But why does it feel so good? Let’s find out.
1. Ejaculation Reflex
Talking about the technicality of the male orgasm, ejaculation is primarily achieved through the reflex of the prostate. Despite its being protected by a wall of rectal membrane, it is still highly sensitive to pressure. Pressing against or rubbing the prostate through the rectal wall directly stimulates the prostate, resulting in an ejaculation reflex accompanied by the physical sensations of climax.
2. Anal Stimulation
Something that more conservative people probably don’t know is how sensitive the anus is to stimulation. Along with the genitals, it is connected to a vast network composed of millions of sensitive nerve endings. This is the reason why you may notice anal stimulation in a wide array of pornographic materials. If you were to attend a sex seminar or talk to a sex therapist, they are bound to tell you the same thing.
3. The Hidden Penis
Another thing that many do not know is that the penis is like an iceberg: there’s more underneath the surface. More than a third of the penis is buried inside the male body. The act of massaging the prostate also allows for the stimulation of “the hidden penis”. Just as it is most ideal to stimulate all the key spots in women, simultaneously stimulating all three of the male’s major erogenous zones can create an overwhelming response.
4. The Male Psyche
Males are usually associated with dominance and power. However, when subjected to prostate massages, feelings of submission and vulnerability come into play. Similar to the rush felt when exposed to submission in BDSM, allowing one’s self to be open for penetration (especially when it’s an uncommon experience for him) can create a kind of psychological high.
This activity is one that is guaranteed to spice up the bedroom of a couple in a completely different way. However, it is one that may require a higher degree of care and preparation. It’s true that not every man will be willing to “open up” in such a vulnerable way but in the event that he expresses willingness, it’s important to guarantee hygiene, proper lubrication, and communication. Another possible alternative is the use of a prostate milking device and other anal stimulation toys.
You can find our very own prostate milker and massagers in our “FOR HIM” section. Talk with your partner about it and see where he stands. But rest assured, when done correctly, it will be so worth it.